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The anxieties of being a feminine guy in a straight, white male office

I could always see it in their faces. I dreaded it. I’d speak in what was my lowest, most unnatural tone and I’d watch as a brief moment of realization crossed their faces, followed by stifled snickers, and then neutral, polite friendliness, or scorn, depending on who I...

This is actually how you put pomade on

Hate to say it, but you’ve probably been putting hair product in all wrong. Say what? Just like parting your hair [https://www.verygoodlight.com/2016/10/17/youre-actually-parting-your-hair-all-wrong/] or moisturizing incorrectly [https://www.verygoodlight.com/2016/11/09/youve-been-moisturizing-all-wrong/], chances are you’ve been putting in pomade wrong...